The Secret to Winning Back Your
Ex
Stop crying! Stop moping around! We knows where you are right now. You’re
hurt, you’re angry, you’re confused.
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Instincts Vs. Strategy in Winning Back
Your Ex
However, most of your instinctual responses
right now are wrong! Winning back your ex is definitely on your mind but the more important
question is: are you approaching this delicate situation with a strategy? Your first
instincts are probably to feel sorry for yourself and imagine every type of uncomfortable and
painful scenario. You think about when you and your ex were happy. You think about what
you did to mess things up, or what he or she did to ruin the relationship. You think about
him or her moving on and are wallowing in the fact that you haven’t.
You know what this mindset does? It makes
you do stupid things instead of focusing on winning back your ex. It makes you send hundreds of
strange text messages to your ex. It might even reduce you to begging or pleading for your ex
to take you back. This is not going to build you up in the mind of your
ex.
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The First Step in Winning Back Your
Ex
No, this type of behavior is going to make him or
her remember why she/he dumped you in the first place. That’s harsh, isn’t it? Maybe that’s the
brutal honesty you need right now. You have to snap out of this funk you’re in and start strategizing if
winning back your ex is really that important to you. Your first step should be coming to terms with what has
happened.
This can hurt like a stake through the heart, no question.
However, with painful experiences we grow as human beings. We learn something about the women or man
we love and ourselves.
The Next Step in Winning Back Your
Ex
The next step is to formulate a strategy that helps in winning
back your ex, a game plan that makes you look good, not like the “loser” in the relationship. Focus on
becoming self-confident again. You can still talk to your ex and make him or her think about you, but
you will approach the situation in a different way.
You will take on a new persona in winning back your ex.
You are communicating to your ex that you are okay with what has happened and have no problem moving on.
However, you still hold a place for them in your heart and maybe (the key word is “maybe”) still love them.
Carry this attitude and your ex may start to miss you.
Of course—he or she misses the confident and charming you,
the one he or she first fell in love with! Winning back your ex is all a matter of putting forth
some effort into the dying relationship rather than hoping to gain something by negative “momentum.” Believe
in yourself! You can win back your ex and be happy again.
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